Does gratitude contribute to wellness?

Does Gratitude lead to Happiness?

I decided to find out how gratitude contributes to wellness as there are many memes and printables focusing on gratitude.

Have we ever thought about gratitude and its importance to us as a society?

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What is gratitude?

Gratitude is a social emotion and it connects us to our social world.

It is directed at someone who has helped us in some way and it can range from a simple act of someone offering their seat on public transport to lifelong gratitude for an act of kindness that may have had grand repercussions to someone, such as an act that may have saved someone's life.

The power of gratitude is its ability to build repricocity in others so if you practise gratitude towards others, they are more inclined to reciprocate gratitude themselves.

Gratitude becomes a circular event that connects us socially, with warm feelings towards other human beings.

Scientific research has shown that practising gratitude, with you being the giver or receiver, stimulates the frontal cortex of the brain and this sets a chain reaction that ultimately leads to a boost in our mental wellbeing.

Practising gratitude helps us become better human beings by being less selfish in our wants and perceived needs, and develops humility in ourselves.

Instead of focusing on perceived deficits, such as the lack of material wealth, we focus on our blessings by actively thinking about the 'positives' in our daily and long-term life.

It is so easy to focus, for example, on one bad thing that has happened and not let it go.

That one thing masks the many good things that have also happened and we need a jolt in our thinking to put things in perspective as focusing on negatives can impact your mental wellness.

What prompted me to start thinking about gratitude?

As I spend a lot of time on Pinterest, I saw an idea that I loved. It was the Gratitude Jar, wherein you write one thing you are grateful for each day and place this note in the jar.

At the end of the year, you should have 365 memories of things you were grateful for throughout the year.

I thought it was a great idea and what a lot of lovely memories you would be reliving, that you would ordinarily have forgotten.

It is a great way of training your mind to think of something that was positive and uplifting, and that you are grateful for.

Throughout my life, I have seen others who spend most of their time ruminating on all the negatives in their lives and focusing on bad memories.

They were emotionally draining, unhappy people.

Should you make an effort to practise the art of gratitude?

As mentioned earlier, practising gratitude has a beneficial effect on our brain and mental and physical wellness.

On social media, time and time again, I have often read that if we ever saw the effects negative thought had on us internally, we would never have a negative thought again.

I was listening to an audiobook prior to sitting down to write this part, and it was discussing the effects that negative and positive thoughts have on us and it made an astounding statement.

Along with the claims that are perhaps expected, it said that when we are in a negative zone e.g. we are scared of bees that may be in our line of sight, we emit our anxiety so powerfully that a bee can actually pick up our vibrations, interpret our anxiety and sting us.

I have never been scared of bees so that may explain why I have not been stung, even though there were plenty of bees around as I grew up.

I have decided to add this in as an interesting fact, and you may or not believe it!

One article went into depth about how a negative thought triggers a set of physical reactions within our body and it was staggering to read how many reactions our bodies experience, without us being aware of the potentially harmful chemical surges within our body.

Having negative thoughts sets a train of events inside our bodies that we cannot fully perceive as it is invisible to us.

So it is valuable to train yourself to practise gratitude until it becomes a habit.

I have witnessed a total lack of gratitude in others who are unable to say 'thank you' for a present or unexpected handout, for time spent helping them or mentoring them in a new job and they are negative souls and you can never get their loyalty.

Needless to say, they have fractured relationships in life and this turmoil cannot be good for their mental or physical wellness.

If you feel you have nothing to feel grateful for or think that you are a 'half-glass empty' person who dwells on the negative, remember that :

Today

someone took their last breath
someone received news that they had a life-threatening illness
someone was just retrenched
someone lost a baby
someone didn't have enough money when shopping and had to put groceries back
someone suffers from depression in silence
someone had news that their partner had just died
someone who needs to work has a sick child but manages their family
someone has a child with a diagnosis that means lifelong special care
someone is in an abusive relationship but it is better than living on the street or being stalked
someone whose marriage has deteriorated and finding it hard to keep up the pretence
someone is having a breakdown and being judged by family

What to be grateful for each day:

Do you appreciate

someone you don't know smiling at you unexpectedly?
offering you a seat?
making you a cup of tea or coffee?
cooking dinner?
taking you out for dinner?
helping you with a project?
staying after work to talk to you?
a child bringing you a flower? (I get this sometimes from school children)
letting you go first in the queue?
someone picking up something you dropped?

So many possibilities!

The Benefits of Gratitude

The benefits of gratitude are twofold: physical and mental wellness. Some people are better at it than others so, for some, it is a habit to be acquired by practising with deliberate intention.

Without gratitude, we lose the 'glue' that binds us, not only to those we know but to the rest of humanity.

Those who helped Jewish people escape from the Nazis, by hiding them in their houses, did so at their own peril.

The gratitude felt by those who were saved was a lifelong feeling towards those strangers.

Gratitude develops trust towards the humanity of others.

If people are kind to strangers, we feel safer and more secure in our place in the world.

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3 Great Healthy Hair Hacks

Healthy Hair Hack One:

I decided to write about the healthy hair hacks I practice, and know of, as hair is your crowning glory and women are often admired for their hair.

When I was younger, I was lucky to have thick, healthy hair that did not need a lot of tricks to look good. It was healthy and I did not have to worry about split ends, dullness or dandruff.

As I got older, I noticed some grey hairs appearing and started dyeing my hair and this did not impact on my hair for a long time.

However, age dries out our skin and hair and I noticed that my hair started to dry out and be more unmanageable. I also read about the harmful effects of dyes entering our bodies so, as I am more intent on being as healthy as I possibly can, I decided to stop dyeing my hair.

But I was not ready to go 'grey' yet so I trialed something and it worked. I have nay-sayers but it works so give it a go and see if it works for you.

This is what I did and it is simple and also much cheaper than dyeing your hair.

I bought a hair rinse from the supermarket for a few dollars, the shade of my original hair.

Now, these rinses tell you to leave them in for relatively short times but I leave it in for one hour.

That is as simple and as effective as you get: leave it in for at least one hour to cover greys and get the colour you want.

Now, others keep telling me that rinses do not cover grey hair but I have much more grey than the young nay-sayers who are only sprouting a few here and there!

The benefits of this healthy hair hack:

1. It lasts for 3-4 months while it covers my grey. True!

2. It gently fades so no ugly stripe on top of your head.

3. Hair is shiny and healthy as rinses do not have the harmful chemicals that dyes have.

4. It is much cheaper to buy a rinse for $5, which lasts for over 3 months.

5. If you have dyed your hair, you can use a rinse over the top when it is starting to fade and this will lengthen its life, as well as covering the tell-tale stripe.

Healthy Hair Hack Two:

If your hair is very dry or unmanageable, you can use olive oil.

Dampen your clean hair and apply warm olive oil throughout your hair. Massage it well into your hair.

Wrap glad wrap around your head and leave it in for an hour. Then wash out with shampoo.

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Use essential oils in your shampoo. This will make your hair smell heavenly, and you can choose your favourite oils for their scent or you can focus on their beneficial uses.

You only need to add a few drops into your shampoo as essential oils are highly concentrated.

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The citrus blends will help with oil control.

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